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Was at a library in Tacoma and saw a librarian handle a 'what's the meaning of life' question without blinking.
Kid, maybe 10, walked up and asked it straight. Instead of a deep answer, she pulled three totally different books: a philosophy intro, a book on animal habitats, and a poetry collection. Said 'people have asked this forever, here are some ways they've looked for answers.' It clicked for me that 'ask anything' isn't about having the right answer, it's about showing where to start looking. How do you handle the huge, unanswerable questions when someone asks you?
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nathan_allen7128d ago
That part about "it's about showing where to start looking" really got me. I used to feel like I needed to have a smart answer ready for the big stuff. It stressed me out. Now I just try to point at a few different doors they could walk through, exactly like that librarian did. I mean, idk the meaning of life either, but I can show you what some other folks have said about it. Maybe it's just me, but that feels way more honest and actually helpful.
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barnes.brian28d agoMost Upvoted
Yeah, that shift is huge. I spent years feeling like a fraud because I didn't have the "right" answers. Letting go of that and just being a signpost is so much easier on your brain. It turns a question from a test you can fail into a normal conversation. Plus, people seem to trust you more when you're not pretending to know everything.
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Honestly, is the meaning of life really a question that needs an answer? Most of the time when people ask stuff like that, they're just bored or making conversation. The librarian had the right idea by just handing over some books. It's not that deep. You point at the stuff other people wrote and go back to sorting returns.
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