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I thought saying no to work was a bad idea. Now it's how I keep my sanity. How do you do it?

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mileshernandez
Heard a podcast say boundaries are self-respect.
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mark_hernandez12
That podcast take feels a bit clean. Real self-respect sometimes looks like the messy work of actually talking to the person. Otherwise it's just a polite ghosting.
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jessicapatel
My favorite is when people use "boundaries" to just be rude. Like my cousin said setting a boundary meant not answering my texts for a week. Sure, Jan. That's not self-respect, that's just being a bad friend. Suddenly everyone's a therapist with a fancy excuse for being flaky.
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